<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></title><description><![CDATA[
Stop Living Wounded is the ministry of Dr. E. Ken Harmon. Our drive is to help you live, and lead, well.]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 03:19:15 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Qualifying the Call: Struggling When You Feel Unworthy to Lead.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you aren’t called to lead? ]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/strugglingtolead</link><guid isPermaLink="false">689a380445f49f7c6153f748</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2025 19:07:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_10e7aa24234441dda262ed8759062879~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Paul Parris</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'M TOO OLD! 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Part 1 - You're Never Too Old to Flourish]]></title><description><![CDATA[Many legacy members (senior citizens) hesitate to chase their aspirations due to self-doubt or societal beliefs about aging. ]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/you-re-never-too-old</link><guid isPermaLink="false">686c24366e4eab8118ffe368</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 16:05:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_4ac1ec0eb6aa4839a9275c3e389c8e1b~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[PASTORS IN PAIN: Why Pastors Must Acknowledge Their Own Woundedness.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Far too often, pastors ignore their own pain. We spiritualize it, minimize it, or file it away under “I’ll deal with that after Easter.” Spoiler alert: you won’t. ]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/pastoralstruggles</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68656a8bba7ee5785a817ffd</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 23:00:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/23c6ed3f5e614c09b28a14d774acf206.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thank You Brady Boyd]]></title><description><![CDATA[What I do understand is that when I arrived at New Life, I was suicidal, mentally exhausted, and barely functional. ]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/thank-you-brady-boyd</link><guid isPermaLink="false">686ff96a7183254306bb2d40</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2025 19:14:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d0c651_64e173efed7540318a55b22bb8e1f41b~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_854,h_733,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[It’s Okay to Talk about Trauma in the Church]]></title><description><![CDATA[Healing begins with honesty. 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Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Navigating Desperation and Fear: Finding Hope in Challenging Times]]></title><description><![CDATA[In this blog, we address the nature of desperation as a fruit of fear. ]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/navigatingdesperation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68633572f2f431b5b2663ed9</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 17:06:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_e2b630c21db3449a90a296b3378351f4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Embracing Vulnerability: The Unseen Path to Radical Healing]]></title><description><![CDATA[In a society that often values strength and invulnerability, the idea of being vulnerable can feel uncomfortable. 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Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What is Stop Living Wounded?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Stop Living wounded is part psychology - part sociology - part theology all to motivate you to live the life God intended. While I hold...]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/what-is-stop-living-wounded</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67953c24d0d2f00ad9da3146</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Jan 2025 19:44:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d0c651_fcac08a2ba7644f785ddc4e10e6f5529~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. 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Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[WHEN LIFE IS OUT OF ALIGNMENT]]></title><description><![CDATA[It is equally important to be proactive in your personal, relational, and emotional health or things can go bad real fast.]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/focus</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6737a5fbc15d0eeccbb2970c</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><category><![CDATA[Stop Loving Wounded]]></category><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 28 Dec 2024 16:00:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d0c651_5a9a62ef8b9c430384f9600622125a57~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_700,h_730,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. Ken Harmon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Worship the King]]></title><description><![CDATA[Through our worship, we acknowledge His sovereignty and invite His transformative power into our lives.]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/worshiptheking</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6766ed008b7adcca5219ea7f</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 25 Dec 2024 13:00:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_1d5c1fbbed1744babd6442a834151158~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Debbie D.</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[WHY I NO LONGER HATE DR. REED]]></title><description><![CDATA[Understanding is crucial in counseling, in ministry, in marriage, and in life.]]></description><link>https://www.pastorkenharmon.org/post/compassion-starts-with-understanding</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6753876c56381f74722737f3</guid><category><![CDATA[Stop Living Wounded]]></category><category><![CDATA[Stop Leading Wounded]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2024 13:00:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d0c651_bd666115bcfa4689bce449941c353e2c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_905,h_554,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Dr. E. 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